Self-love doesn’t require becoming a better, thinner, more successful, or more confident version of yourself first. It begins with the woman who is already here. Falling for the Woman You Already Are explores what it means to treat yourself with loyalty, honesty, compassion, and care—even on the days when you aren’t particularly impressed with yourself.

Nobody warned us that midlife would involve creaky knees, unpredictable sneezes, changing bodies, comfortable shoes and an increasingly short tolerance for nonsense. A funny, candid look at the indignities of getting older—and why some of them become much easier once we learn to laugh.