For years I believed turning 50 meant losing something. What I never expected was everything I'd gain: confidence, perspective, peace, and the freedom to finally become myself.

I used to think kaftans belonged on old sitcoms. Then I slipped one on, and everything changed. Here's why I've become a proud member of the "Long Live the Moo-Moo" club—and why comfort after 50 might be one of life's greatest luxuries.